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Sexual performance and multiplication process

Aging has everything to do with sexual performance, “duties”, gender differences and multiplication. The natural task is to multiply the human race and to conserve the different species in it. Humans are a separate species in nature, not superior but on a different level.  This distinguishes us from the animals. Humans have different functions, abilities, performances, and achievements. In short, the human build history when animals conserve species only, as far as currently is known.

The human achievements have made a difference. It created history and we are also a full part of nature. This is something impossible to deny. But the natural function is still to multiply. The knowledge and intelligence built throughout the centuries of experience, historically speaking,  thought people to be sensible with multiplication. Some people have chosen not to get children while others consider it the most important part of their lives. It is a matter of respect and choice, both do have their functions and services to the existence of the human race. It is called awareness of responsibilities and needs. Some people do not feel the need of having children while others cannot have them. This is the reality. Most people still do not except nor respect others who decided to have a childless life. But for the sake of the future, it should be realized that these people are doing the human race a favor, all people should pay respect to them instead of insulting. They too have an important contribution to society, by giving up the possibility of having children they create space and place for others to have. Society should be more aware and alert on people who have children but who are not able to take care of them. These have a negative long-term impact on society.

Sexual performance during our aging process is separated into two segments.

• Sex as a need for multiplication
• Sex as a form of relaxation, enjoyment, and

Male and female have a different opinion on both topics. This difference is fundamental and separates the genders. It is important to state:

• Sexual freedom is a right for everyone but the male is in power which restricts the possibilities and opportunities of the female. Sexual freedom is limited by the morality, religion, and philosophy of the male and enforced by violence and power. This is a negative balance in favor of the male and opposing freedom of the female.
• Female sexual freedom is basically one of caring more than self-satisfaction while the male is more self-oriented and in many ways egocentric. Self-orientation in the female is considered egocentric and in most countries thought as vulgar or dirty. In many societies female sexual desire is met with punishment (even into the extreme).
• Potentially the male is multi partner-oriented while the female prefers a single partner companionship. The female desires emotional connection over physical satisfaction. Males prefer more physical oriented connections and less emotional involvement.
• Females seek stability in relationships while males often offer instability and uncertainty. Males prefer the multi-relationship even when not able to care for these partners. This again is negative for female and society and leaves the financial burden on people who are not or only partly responsible for it.
• Females have the “duty” to bear children for society and the continuation of the human race. Males should have the moral, psychological, financial and overall duty to participate in taking care of the children they are genetically connected to. This responsibility should be moral, financially or otherwise enforced. Males who do not have or take this responsibility should not have the ability to multiply for the benefit of the human race (this is a hard political and moral statement of Arnaud van der Veere which is well aware of the consequences) A worldwide DNA database could connect all individuals to their relationships and enforce care (hypothetical suggestion). This database will have the following positive effect:
  • All registered persons can be held accountable for children which are claimed to be related to them
  • DNA matches can be calculated on suitability after database comparing (big data comparing)